Making a Case for NOT Making a Case

Do you ever find yourself making a case for a decision you’ve made about your life, in order to justify your decision to other people that may or may not even care?  I often find myself doing just that, and it’s been holding me back from confidently accepting my choices.  It also makes me apologize…

Thank You for Reading

The month of gratitude is upon us, and I would be absolutely remiss if I didn’t take a moment to thank you, dear readers, for the gift of your readership.  Your time and energy are precious and I’m humbled by the time you’ve spent on this little blog of mine.  I feel it’s only fair…

Compliments are for Badasses

“What a pretty sweater on a crummy day.  The color looks great on you!” I said to the sweet school secretary wearing a sunny yellow sweater on the first day of snow. “This old thing?” she replied, waving my compliment away.  “It was the only thing I had clean.” I laughed politely, but it wasn’t really…

I Looked in the Mirror and I Saw the World

When I was a little Brownie, my troop (shout out to Troop 308!) held an induction ceremony to become an official Girl Scout.  I remember spinning around, and being told to walk over to a mirror on the floor as I recited these words:  “Twist me and turn me and show me the elf, I…

How Can a Nice Girl Let Go of Bad Friends?

Are we judged based by the company we keep?  Did Hillary Clinton lose the 2016 Presidential race in part because of the actions of her husband and advisers?  Am I judged on the actions of the people I surround myself with? Maybe I am.  And that’s kind of scary. We live in a toxic world. …

Decluttering my Time, Energy & Relationships

I have cleaned out and organized a lot of drawers and cupboards in my 39 years, but when I started my latest cleaning project I really had no idea how much it would change me.  I knew it would make my house less cluttered; I certainly didn’t realize it would bring such peace and harmony…

Why Not Have Both?

“Oreos, or candy corn?”  I asked Huck, my three-year-old, as I was packing his school lunch.  I was following the popular advice given to parents of toddlers by giving the precocious little guy a choice, and therefore empowering him on some level (or so they say). Without a moment’s hesitation, he replied, “Oreos AND candy…